For some reason, Kirstie thought it was important to make public that she and Patrick Swayze fell in love in 1985 when both were married. And although Alley says that the pair never got physical, they did indeed have an emotional connection. The problem? At the time, Swayze was married to Lisa Niemi who remained his wife until his death in 2009. Alley said that doesn’t know if Niemi is aware of the 1985 “fling.” Well, if she wasn’t, she certainly is now.